Kink / BDSM

Every self-respecting adult has heard of it but fewer have understood it and even fewer have dared to try it. When vanilla gets boring, BDSM gets going.

BDSM is a popular acronym for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism. Pornos and movies are great for a first raunchy introduction but they aren’t the best source of practical information. Hence, we’re going to role-play you a sexpert.

Bondage involves tying each other up in creative positions only to unleash your inner beast. Anything that involves taking control of your partner and ordering them around in the dirtiest of ways is Dominance. Sadism is when you add a little extra consensual pain into the mix and onto your partner to maximize your pleasure. When roles in sadism are reversed, masochism is what you get.

Humans love sex and humans can get creative so not surprisingly, there is a plethora of BDSM paraphernalia that you can use to add sugar, spice, and everything naughty to your sex life.

Since the practice is deeply rooted in fantasy, anything that you find arousing can be included in your sex inventory. A generic list, however, includes stuff like ropes, masks, gags, blindfolds, and handcuffs for the newly initiated, and strap-ons, floggers, harnesses, leather suits, and sex swings for those who have levelled up. You can also add the iconic tie from the Fifty Shades fame to the list as a tribute.

Now before you get hot and heavy and all ready to grab cuffs and whips, hold your horses. The most important apparatus in your sex inventory has got to be the S-Word.

Safe Words are previously agreed-upon words that, once uttered, hold the power of timing out or completely aborting the play. Since more than just the usual amount of pain is mixed with pleasure during BDSM, it’s not atypical of people to tap out of scenes.

Now that you know the 'what' of BDSM, you are probably wondering about the 'who' of it. We need you to conjure up the image of a Matahari-like seductress, her. A biker dude with tattoos, him. A middle-aged soccer mom, also her. And perhaps even your second-grade school teacher. It’s impossible to tell who would want to kink it up a notch so just cut to the chase and do the magical thing – ask. There are usually three types of roles involved in the mix – naturally a dominant, a consequential submissive, and the little-known Oscillators who can do both.

So knock yourselves out along with the right foot of your bedframe and put the kink-loving Romans to shame.

Try any and all items from our section dedicated solely to BDSM to explore and experiment in ways that are not for the weak-hearted.

Speaking of hearts and health, we’ll have you know that in sex, if consensual, nothing is a no-no. Although previously stigmatized by esoteric institutions and scientific academia alike, it is now widely known that there’s nothing twisted about people who indulge in BDSM save for their panties.

Most people attribute the de-stigmatization of wilder fantasy plays to recent cinema-related developments. However, more than half the population has claimed to have done themselves dirty well before the Fifty Shades era even began. Now that might just include your parents but we won’t tell you that.

Women who are reading this may go “finally!” and men who are reading this might just go “really?”. Yes, boys. It’s true. Go re-watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S and you will recall the famous “seven” erogenous zones that are the key to shaky beds and pissed off neighbours. So get ready because now you will be required to do more than just the pounding. The nipular area is one of the highly sensitive and erogenous zones on a woman and it’s finally time that partners take note of that.

Keeping in mind the stimulation needs of women, innumerable nipple toys that press all the right buttons have been in circulation for a while. There’s a vast assortment of nipple toys available in the market that includes the good old nipple clamps and clips, nipple teasers and nipple pumps.

Nipple Clamps are stylized regular clamps that play with pressure for increased pleasure. Nipple clamps are said to have been a Japanese invention creatively used. Legend has it that the clamps that seamstresses used to hold down their fabrics while at work were then put to more recreational uses. Today, nipple clamps are popularly used. They can be adjusted to inflict a dull ache, a pinch or an intense squeeze on the nipple, depending on the preference and desire of the wearer. Some also have a vibrator attached for increased arousal. The sensations caused by both wearing and removing the clamps send even the most composed women in a heated frenzy. Needless to say, they look hot and do wonders for the partner’s arousal too.

Nipple Teasers are another invention that even Aphrodite would be thrilled to approve of. Two tiny vacuums that suck on the already touch-sensitive nipples are a boon to a world that is already quite oblivious to the tremor-inducing concept of nipple orgasms. These nipple teasers can be used on oneself or on the partner to create a vacuum on the nipples that mimics the act of the sucking by a partner. Blood rushes to all the right spots by this godsent causing stronger than average orgasms, or should we say nipple-gasms, in women.

Nipple Pumps are a third variety that are very similar to nipple teasers but have a squeeze ball attached to two cups. You or your partner are to squeeze on the ball while the cups are placed on the breasts to cause suction that will increase the size and sensitivity of the breast creating stirs and tingles that some may claim are more powerful than any they may have felt during orgasms induced only by intercourse.

1. Fifty Shades Of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps

2. Lux Feather Nipple Clamps

3. Fifty Shades Of Grey Vibrating Nipple Clamps

4. Lux Fetish Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clips

5. Saiz Nipple Pump Basic

When the vagina gets so much attention from dicks, dildos and vibrators, it is only fair that the breasts also get in on some action. After all they have been sexualized for too long in life but never given enough attention in the act of sex itself. There are literally 2000 nerve endings being ignored right there, people!

There are women who, for one reason or another, cannot orgasm with intercourse alone. So having assistance in the department a little up north goes a long way in guaranteeing gasps and moans every time.

Nipple Toys are also very popularly used in BDSM and sometimes even by men. They are, however, still among the lower rung of the popular sex toy shelf. Go check out our list to change that.

Explore the pleasures of chastity play with the Chastity Belts collection. Designed for dominance, submission, and orgasm control, these belts are perfect for partnered or solo play. Experience the gratifying tease of restraint and explore your kinky side. Cock cages made of silicone, plastic, or metal prevent erections and offer a thrilling challenge. Choose a lockable cage for extended commitment. Plastic and silicone cages can be worn for days or weeks, while metal cages are suitable for shorter durations. Surrender control to your partner and indulge in a BDSM fantasy with these enticing cages.

The first time we read a mention of strapons is in the Kamasutra. There is a mention of dildo being used with a harness. Over time a lot has been innovated, materials changed, polymers created and behold! Welcome to our new age strapon dildos.

One of the reasons why strapons are becoming increasingly popular is because the adult products industry is really innovating. Also, in general people have started activities like double penetration, role reversal, lesbian relationships, etc. easily. Thus, there are fewer taboos and misconceptions about sex toys.

To buy strapons in India? It’s as easy as buying groceries online now. One doesn’t have to worry about their gender, sexual, orientation or size. Like groceries, it comes in a wide range. Strapons are available in various shapes, fittings, attachments, materials, sizes, and additional features; and can be used for vaginal, oral, anal sex or masturbation. They can create powerful sensations and a very unique mood and setting for both the giver and the receiver.

Since strap on dicks are so awesome, we decided to write a 101-guide about them so that you can select the right product for yourself, armed with this knowledge.

Sex is great but what really turns your partner on is some hot foreplay. Explore your partner’s body while savoring every moment with passion, intimacy, and desire. Whether you're experienced or new to BDSM, add kinky elements into your foreplay can be exciting. Use furry handcuffs to restrain your partner, blindfold them with a satin mask, add slapping paddles, and let the playful exploration begin. Though people tend to often skip this part, we advice you to not and say yes to adding arousal gels, massage oils and even mouth-watering flavours of oral gels to make oral sex a lot more exciting.