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BDSM in India? Here’s Your One-Stop BDSM Shop for your very own Red Room of Pain
BDSM: Everything you need to know
Every self-respecting adult has heard of it but fewer have understood it and even fewer have dared to try it. When vanilla gets boring, BDSM gets going. BDSM is a popular acronym for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism. Pornos and movies are great for a first raunchy introduction but they aren’t the best source of practical information. Hence, we’re going to role-play you a sexpert.
Bondage involves tying each other up in creative positions only to unleash your inner beast. Anything that involves taking control of your partner and ordering them around in the dirtiest of ways is Dominance. Sadism is when you add a little extra consensual pain into the mix and onto your partner to maximize your pleasure. When roles in sadism are reversed, masochism is what you get.
What the books didn't you about BDSM
Now that you know the 'what' of BDSM, you are probably wondering about the 'who' of it. We need you to conjure up the image of a Matahari-like seductress, her. A biker dude with tattoos, him. A middle-aged soccer mom, also her. And perhaps even your second-grade school teacher. It’s impossible to tell who would want to kink it up a notch so just cut to the chase and do the magical thing – ask. There are usually three types of roles involved in the mix – naturally a dominant, a consequential submissive, and the little-known Oscillators who can do both.
What to browse when in the mood for BDSM
Humans love sex and humans can get creative so not surprisingly, there is a plethora of BDSM paraphernalia that you can use to add sugar, spice, and everything naughty to your sex life.
Since the practice is deeply rooted in fantasy, anything that you find arousing can be included in your sex inventory. A generic list, however, includes stuff like ropes, masks, gags, blindfolds, and handcuffs for the newly initiated, and strap-ons, floggers, harnesses, leather suits, and sex swings for those who have levelled up. You can also add the iconic tie from the Fifty Shades fame to the list as a tribute.
Now before you get hot and heavy and all ready to grab cuffs and whips, hold your horses. The most important apparatus in your sex inventory has got to be the S-Word.
Safe Words are previously agreed-upon words that, once uttered, hold the power of timing out or completely aborting the play. Since more than just the usual amount of pain is mixed with pleasure during BDSM, it’s not atypical of people to tap out of scenes.
Why try BDSM in your bedroom (or anywhere really)
So knock yourselves out along with the right foot of your bedframe and put the kink-loving Romans to shame.
Try any and all items from our section dedicated solely to BDSM to explore and experiment in ways that are not for the weak-hearted.
Speaking of hearts and health, we’ll have you know that in sex, if consensual, nothing is a no-no. Although previously stigmatized by esoteric institutions and scientific academia alike, it is now widely known that there’s nothing twisted about people who indulge in BDSM save for their panties.
Most people attribute the de-stigmatization of wilder fantasy plays to recent cinema-related developments. However, more than half the population has claimed to have done themselves dirty well before the Fifty Shades era even began. Now that might just include your parents but we won’t tell you that.
Top 5 BDSM Toys for You to Try in 2021. The Lusty Listicle
We’re the people the same parents warned you about. We will not only introduce you to the scandalous but also equip you for one. Here’s the kink de la kink of our selection:
Fifty Shades Of Grey Universal Bed Restraint Kit
With Fifty Shades of Grey Universal Bed Restraint kit for couples, you can make your partner your Anastasia Steele and only yours by showing her who is the boss. Transform your ordinary bed into a bondage playground and your sub into your plaything.
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Lux Fetish - Breathable Ball Gag
Keep your lover quiet and under control with this playful pleasure set. Perfect for beginners and enthusiasts alike, adjustable size for male or female. Breathable and adjustable.
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Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Silk Rope
You don't have to be an expert to enjoy the pleasure of Japanese-style bondage play when you use the super-soft and silky Deluxe Silky Rope. It's ideal for those who simply want to tie their partner's hands and feet together, and long and durable enough for those who want to engage in Shibari-style rope bondage.
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Fifty Shades Of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps
Fifty Shades of Grey, The Pinch nipple clamps is a great choice for new beginners or BDSM practitioners alike. Lose yourself in the slowly-intensifying sensations of these weighted nipple clamps, and revel in the sweet spot between pleasure and pain. These clamps are pretty to look at, and once they are on your nipples, they will thank you!
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Bijoux Indiscrets Lilly Fringe Whip
The ultimate treat for lovers of Bijoux Indiscrets is called Lilly, a whip of soft tassels to caress and punish... for pleasure. A vibrant fantasy game that wakes sensuality and causes no pain.
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