Whatsapp
If you grew up in India, chances are nobody sat you down and said, “Pleasure is normal, your body is yours, and exploring it is completely okay.” Most of us learned through awkward Google searches, half baked myths from friends, and that one overconfident person on the internet who claims there’s a “right” way to orgasm. The truth is simpler and kinder: there’s no one right way, but there are sex toys that make the journey easier, safer, and way more fun.
That’s why “best sex toys” is such a popular search. Not because people are wild, but because people are curious. They want to feel good. They want to reduce pressure during partnered sex. They want something that works when stress, hormones, or routine has made pleasure feel… complicated. And they want options that don’t feel intimidating, especially if they’re a first time buyer.
A good starter mindset is this: pick sex toys based on sensations you already like. If you enjoy external touch, look at vibrators for women like bullets, suction toys, and wands. If you like fullness or internal stimulation, explore dildos, G spot toys, or butt plugs. If you want “together” pleasure, couples sex toys like cock rings and app controlled toys can add that shared excitement without needing a big performance.
If you’re browsing categories, these collections make it easy to explore by type: Vibrators, Clitoral Vibrators, Dildos, Butt Plugs, Masturbators, Fleshlights, and Cock Rings. If you’re into smarter, remote play, browsing brand collections like Lovense and Tenga can also help you narrow down quickly.
Before we jump into product picks, a gentle but important note: comfort and safety make everything better. Use a good amount of water based lube with most sex toys (especially silicone toys), go slow, and stop if anything feels sharp or painful. Clean your toys after every use, and if you’re sharing toys between partners or switching between anal and vaginal use, use a fresh condom on the toy and keep hygiene strict. Pleasure should never come with stress the next day.
Our IMbesharam Picks: Best Sex Toys to Try at Least Once
1. B Swish Premium Wireless Vibrator
B Swish Premium Wireless Vibrator is is a compact, wireless bullet style vibrator that’s great for anyone who wants strong vibes without dealing with something bulky. What makes it feel “premium” is the cordless remote play angle and multiple vibration functions, plus the convenience of being rechargeable and waterproof, so it can easily fit into real life, not just fantasy life. It’s ideal for beginners who want an easy external vibrator, and also for couples who like the idea of one partner controlling the vibe in a playful, teasing way.
2. Satisfyer Penguin Powerful Suction Massager
Suction toys have become a modern classic because they create a totally different kind of stimulation compared to regular vibrators, more like pulsing waves than direct rubbing. The Satisfyer Penguin Powerful Suction Massager is popular because it’s beginner friendly, has multiple intensity levels, and is designed to be comfortable to hold and use without a learning curve. If you’ve been curious about air pulse style sex toys but want something that feels cute, non intimidating, and effective, this is a strong first choice.
3. Lovense AMBI Smart Bullet Vibrator
If you want a bullet vibrator that can be used both for solo play and partnered play with app control, Lovense AMBI Smart Bullet Vibrator is a good “one toy, many moods” option. Lovense is widely known for smart sex toys, and AMBI fits that vibe with a small, versatile shape that works well for external stimulation, teasing, and experimenting with patterns. It’s ideal for people who love discreet, targeted stimulation and also want the flexibility of app control.
4. Lovense DOMI 2 Powerful Massage Wand
Wands are a must try category because they’re the “no nonsense” choice when you want deep, rumbly vibrations. Lovense DOMI 2 Powerful Massage Wand is loved for combining that wand power with smart features like app compatibility and long run time, so it can work for solo sessions, partner play, and even long distance control if that’s your thing. It’s ideal for anyone who finds smaller vibrators too buzzy and wants stronger, deeper vibrations that feel more body melting than tickly.
5. Lovense Lush 4 Wireless Smart Vibrator
A wearable, app controlled vibrator is one of those “at least once” experiences because it opens up a whole different style of play: hands free, remote controlled, and great for long distance relationships too. Lovense Lush 4 Wireless Smart Vibrator is positioned as Lovense’s newest upgrade with stronger vibrations, improved connectivity, faster charging, and an LED element you can turn off when you want discretion. If you want to try smart sex toys that are made for control, teasing, and playful partner interaction, this is the iconic category pick.
6. King Cock 8" Realistic Dildo
A good dildo is about choosing the right size and feel for your comfort, not about trying to “prove” anything. King Cock 8" Realistic Dildo is designed to feel realistic, with an insertable length listed at 8 inches, and it also has a suction cup base which can add variety to how you use it. It’s from Pipedream, a long running US brand known for a wide range of adult products, and it’s ideal for experienced users or anyone who already knows they enjoy fuller, more intense internal stimulation. If you’re newer, you can still explore this category, just consider starting smaller from the broader Dildos collection first.
7. Rocks Off Ass-Berries Vibrating Butt Plug
Butt plugs are one of the most misunderstood sex toys, but when used slowly with the right lube and a relaxed body, they can feel deeply pleasurable for all genders. The Rocks Off Ass-Berries Vibrating Butt Plug plug stands out because it’s explicitly designed with a tapered shape and a wide base for safety, plus it offers vibration modes and comes in different sizes, which matters a lot for comfort. It’s ideal for beginners who want a plug that feels playful and manageable, and for anyone who wants a little vibration with that “fullness” sensation. Pair this category with a good lube from Anal Lubes and take your time.
8. Satisfyer Game Changer Vibrating Butt Plug
Satisfyer Game Changer Vibrating Butt Plug is a sleek, beginner friendly vibrating butt plug with multiple programs and a body safe silicone exterior. Satisfyer is known for making pleasure tech feel accessible, and this plug is designed to be easy to control, waterproof, and comfortable to handle with a wide base. It’s ideal for people trying butt plugs for the first time who want something that feels modern, simple, and reliably powerful without being complicated.
9. Lovense HUSH 2 Smart Vibrating Butt Plug
If you want a butt plug that sits in the “premium smart toy” category, Lovense HUSH 2 Smart Vibrating Butt Plug is a big one. It’s app controlled, comes in multiple sizes, and is designed for comfortable wear with customizable patterns, including long distance control through the Lovense app. This is ideal for people who already know they like anal play and want more control, more customization, and that smart sex toys experience where your partner can join in even from far away.
10. OhMiBod LUMEN App Controlled Vibrating Butt Plug
OhMiBod LUMEN App Controlled Vibrating Butt Plug is another app controlled butt plug option, built for people who like the idea of Bluetooth control and a more “luxury gadget” feel. It’s described as having body contour focused design and app connectivity, and it’s ideal for both beginners and more experienced users who want a modern, connected toy that fits into a smart play style.
11. Satisfyer Bullseye App Controlled Cock Ring
Cock rings are one of the easiest couples sex toys to try because they can add extra sensation without changing your whole routine. Satisfyer Bullseye App Controlled Cock Ring is adjustable and app controlled, and it includes a vibrating section aimed at shared pleasure, which is why it’s often recommended for couples who want something simple but exciting. It’s ideal for beginners exploring cock rings and for couples who want a toy that supports connection and shared stimulation, not just solo use.
12. Lovense DIAMO Smart Vibrating Cock Ring
Lovense DIAMO Smart Vibrating Cock Ring sits at the higher end of the cock ring world because it blends that couples toy concept with app control and Lovense’s smart ecosystem. It’s designed to be rechargeable, waterproof, and app compatible, with multiple vibration modes, making it a good pick for people who want to explore “smart couples sex toys” beyond the basics. It’s ideal for couples who like tech, customization, and the idea of remote control play.
13. Fleshlight Girls Violet Myers Masturbator
When people say “Fleshlight,” they usually mean the category standard for realistic masturbators. What makes Fleshlight Girls Violet Myers Masturbator such a staple is the patented SuperSkin sleeve material and the brand’s focus on lifelike texture and durability. If you’re exploring masturbators and want something that’s known globally and designed for a more realistic feel, this is the “try it once” icon. It’s ideal for anyone who wants a premium, branded experience in the masturbators category.
14. Sauce Cup Masturbator
Not everyone wants a full sized masturbator, and that’s where compact cups shine. The Sauce Cup Masturbator is designed to be discreet and portable, with a suction style effect and noise reduction focused construction, which is exactly what many people want when privacy is a real concern at home. It’s ideal for beginners, for quick sessions, and for anyone who wants a lower commitment entry into masturbators without spending premium money.
15. Tenga Spinner Masturbator
Tenga is one of the most recognisable names in modern masturbators, and the Tenga Spinner Masturbator model is popular because it’s built for textured sensations and a more playful, hands on experience. It’s ideal for someone who wants to explore sensation variety rather than just “one texture forever,” and it’s a great way to understand what kinds of stimulation your body responds to best.
A few final tips so your first time feels good, not confusing
If you’re buying your first sex toy, your best investment is not the most expensive gadget, it’s the right lube and the right pace. Water based lube works with most sex toys and makes everything feel smoother, especially with vibrators for women, dildos, butt plugs, and couples sex toys like cock rings. For anal play, go slower than you think you need to, use more lube than you think you need to, and choose toys with a flared base for safety. For masturbators and Fleshlights, keep cleaning simple and consistent so the toy stays fresh and comfortable to use.
Also, don’t underestimate the power of privacy and peace of mind. In India, discreet packaging and comfortable shopping matters, and having categories organised properly helps you choose without feeling overwhelmed. Browse a little, read what a toy is meant to do, and pick what matches your curiosity, not what you think you “should” be into.
The best sex toys aren’t the ones that look impressive on a screen. They’re the ones that help you feel more connected to your body, more confident in your pleasure, and more relaxed in your relationships. Try one, learn what you like, and let your preferences evolve. That’s not shameless, that’s self knowledge.
