Lets Talk Sex Toys for Men & Women

Namaste! If you landed here when searching for sex toys online or for sex toys shop in India, you have come to the right place. We will explain to you in great detail what a sex toy is, what kind of sex toys exist in India and how to make the decision of picking what is best for you. Lets go!

What is a Sex Toy?

Simply put, a sex toy (sometimes also referred to as an adult toy) is a simple toy for adults that provides intense pleasure and heightened climax when used during solo play (masturbation) partner play (sexual intercourse) or even in role play. The most searched sex toys sold in India (and world over are) vibrators, massagers, dildos, butt plugs, strapons for women and masturbators, strokers, sex dolls, cock rings and prostate massagers for men.

What kind of Sex Toys are available online in India?

In India you can find almost every kind of sex toys on IMbesharam.com which is India’s largest adult toys store. If you are a penis owner, you would be searching for sex toys for men and the most popular categories are:

1. Masturbators: They are sex toys designed for wholesome stimulation of the penis. They ideally recreate the sensation of sexual intercourse or masturbation. Masturbators are devices that can come in various forms, including handheld devices, sleeves, or toys. They are usually available in materials like silicone, rubber, or neoprene with features like vibration, texture, or suction to give you the satisfaction of an enhanced sexual experience. Some of the newer models are automatic to use, can be controlled via apps and elevate the usual experience to a state of art orgasm.

2. Strokers/Sleeves: They are another word for masturbators but essentially stimulate your penis while giving you the sensation of sexual intercourse or masturbation. They are tube-shaped products that are made out of rubber or silicone and users can insert their penis into the sleeve. These sleeves come textured with ridges or bumps to give you a heightened sensation. You can use this for solo play or partnered fun.

3. Sex Dolls: Sex Dolls are full sized real life like dolls made of silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) to mimic the feel of skin and are designed to look like a full body or lower half of the body, typically a woman’s body. The toys are life-like and are designed for various sexual activities. The appearance of a sex doll is very realistic and you can use it in various ways like sexual intercourse, oral play, or even companionship.

4. Cock Rings or Penis Rings: Cock rings are made to be worn around the base of the penis or around the penis and testicles. They are designed to constrict blood flow and help with a firm erection while also delaying climax during sexual activity. They are ring-shaped and made of silicone or rubber. The rings that come with vibration and attachments enhance pleasure for penis owner and their partner at the same time, leading to a more satisfying experience.

5. Prostate Massagers: Prostate massagers are devices designed to stimulate the prostate, which is located internally in the male body, usually through the butt. These devices are typically shaped to target the prostate accurately and have features like curved or angled designs for easier insertion and stimulation. Prostate massagers provide sexual pleasure, improve prostate health, and enhance orgasms. They feature additional functions such as vibration or remote control.

6. Fleshlights: The Fleshlight is the world's number one-selling sex toy. It is an extremely popular sex toy for men because it is the closest man-made material that resembles the feeling, texture, appearance, and sensation of real skin and intercourse. It’s great for solo play and/or partnered play too. It is made of a patented neoprene and because its size and shape resemble a Flashlight, which is why it's called Fleshlight. In India, the original version is only available at IMbesharam.com and we are the only authorized sellers for Fleshlight for India.

7. Penis Pumps: A penis pump is a device that creates a vacuum around the penis to increase blood flow. It achieves or maintains an erection and it's used for erectile dysfunction treatment or temporary enhancement. To use, insert the penis, create suction, apply a band, and have sex. After the climax, remove the ring. Apply lube to the base of your penis before using a penis pump, this helps with creating a better seal.

8. Smart Sex Toys for Men: Smart sex toys for men are innovative devices equipped with technology such as Bluetooth or Wi-Fi connectivity, sensors, and app integration. They offer features like remote control, customizable vibration patterns, and interactive capabilities for enhanced solo or partnered sexual experiences. You can find app-controlled masturbators, vibrating prostate massagers, and virtual reality-compatible devices.

If you are a vulva owner and searching for sex toys for women you will be amazed at the expansive varieties and categories that exist, they are:

1. Vibrators: Vibrators are sex toys designed to provide sexual pleasure through intense vibration. They come in different shapes, sizes, and styles, including handheld, insertable, and wearable types. Vibrators can be used for external stimulation of your erogenous zones like the clitoris or nipples, as well as for internal stimulation of the vagina or anus. They may have different vibration intensities, patterns, and features, catering to your preferences and needs. Vibrators can be used for solo sexual activity or as part of partnered play.

2. Massagers: Massagers are amazing sex toys. Their powerful vibrations make them ideal for stimulating erogenous zones such as the clitoris or the vaginal entrance. This can lead to intense arousal and orgasm. They can also be used during partnered play for mutual pleasure or for solo exploration of different sensations, offering versatility and enhanced sexual experiences. They are easy to navigate too since it’s designed to be handheld, massagers can be quite discreet as their vibrations can help relieve full body tension.

3. Dildos: A dildo is a sex toy designed for penetration, typically resembling a penis. It comes in various materials such as silicone, rubber, glass, or metal, and can come in different sizes, shapes, and textures to suit your preferences. Dildos are sex toys that can be used for solo or partnered play. They can be used for vaginal or anal penetration and are often used for masturbation, foreplay, or as part of role-playing scenarios.

4. Body Wands: Body wands are powerful handheld massagers primarily designed to stimulate the clitoris and promote relaxation through climax. They typically feature a long handle with a large, rounded head that vibrates at various speeds and intensities. They allow easy and comfortable access to your erogenous zones.

5. Strap Ons: A strap-on is a sex toy designed for penetration and typically consists of a harness worn around the waist or hips, equipped with a dildo or vibrator that points outward. It allows a person to simulate penetrative sex with a partner. Strap-ons are commonly used in various sexual activities, including role-playing, and pegging. They come in different sizes, shapes, and materials to suit different needs.

6. Lovense Toys: Lovense is the world's number one selling sex toy for women and it is extremely popular because it is the smartest toy. You can control the toy over the internet using an app and Bluetooth or even through cam and video chat. It’s great for pleasure play, long-distance relationships, and partnered and solo sex. Lovense toys are constantly upgrading and have a wide collection for your needs like Lovense Lush 1, Lush 2, and Lush 3.

7. Kegel Balls: Kegel Balls are small, weighted spheres inserted into the vagina to help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. They typically come in a set of two and are connected by a string or silicone coating. By clenching or contracting the pelvic floor muscles to hold the balls in place, women can improve pelvic floor strength, which can lead to better bladder control, increased sexual sensation, and improved vaginal tightness.

8. Smart Sex Toys for Women: Smart sex toys for women are innovative sex toys equipped with technology such as Bluetooth or Wi-Fi connectivity, and app integration. They offer features like remote control, customizable vibration patterns, and interactive capabilities for enhanced solo or partnered sexual experiences. Some exciting toys include app-controlled vibrators, wearable panty vibrators, and suction-based clitoral stimulators.

How to decide the best sex toy for me?

Finding the right sex toy for you can be overwhelming and confusing. But don’t worry, we’ve got your back (and front as well, pun intended) This is a very personal and intimate space for you, using a sex toy can help you feel sensations you may have never experienced before, without any judgment.

Start Small (Literally)

When you’ve explored through the various options, pick a toy that works easily for you. Like a finger vibrator, a bullet vibrator or a clitoral stimulator. These are sure shot products that will hit your sweet spots without the need of a thinking cap. They aren’t intimidating and neither will they leave you unsatisfied. These are great toys to help you pleasure your target zones.

Conventionally, these toys look, feel and tease like human genitalia. But, not anymore. The modern age not only bought technically advanced smart sex toys, but also discreet non-suggestive sex toys for shy players! Choose from a variety of shapes, textures, and sizes- this is the toy heaven. Depending on your preferences, we have a sex toy to satiate everyone.

Orgasm & Climax

Achieving an orgasm is different for everyone. Some people can achieve an orgasm in 5 seconds while others may take 30 minutes or more. Usually the application of a toy heightens your sensations, makes you realize the depth and range of pleasure zones and makes you climax more intensely and usually with a deeper expulsion within your body and mind, and yes sometimes even in your moans and screams.

Sex Toys for Men (Penis Owners)

For men, the masturbators deliver a real intercourse experience and with a suitable imagination or immersion can equal sex with a partner like experience. But the range of sex toys India for men lies so much beyond that! From the basics of cock-rings to futuristic real-life sex dolls, the range to explore is vast and versatile. Prefer pleasing entry from the exit? The P-spot massagers and anal plugs for men are the perfect back door toys for you to get started. Prostate Massagers stimulate the pleasure gland and add base and treble to your climax and orgasm. Explore the wide range of possibilities and experience from sex toys from premium brands like Fleshlight, Tenga, Lovense, PlayBoy, Penthouse, Hustler, Pipedream, and Real Feel Love Dolls preferred by thousands of shoppers worldwide.

Sex Toys for Women (Vulva Owners)

For women the clitoral vibrators with suction technology mimic the powerful vacuum like release and suction waves that stimulate the clitoris externally, while the Gspot & Rabbit vibrators deliver vibrations in various frequencies in the internal vaginal cavity while stimulating the Gspot and the bunny ears sending vibrations to the clitoris leads to a double explosion of senses when you orgasm. Dildo’s provide precise press and touch stimulations as well as the feeling of the back and fro movements akin to an intercourse session, with the female controlling the speed, pressure points and depth of the insertion.

Wand massagers, nipple clamps, and panty vibrators are popular external sex toys. And g-spot vibrators, anal plugs, and dual stimulation dildos are for you to relish internal stimulation. There are even sex toys for lesbians, like strap-on dildos for woman-on-woman fun, and for boss girls, we introduce smart sex toys that are all about double fun, half efforts.

Take charge of your pleasure, ladies, and browse the sex toys for women online collection from Lovense, LELO, We-vibe, Satisfyer, Rocks Off, Kiiroo, Zalo, Lioness, Honey PlayBox and more to find your next playmate. Shop this diverse range of sex toys for men and women from international and Indian brands to spice up your sex life.

Lube me up

We say this with great love, but you gotta let the lube enter your space. Sometimes your determination to have a mind blowing orgasm won’t be enough and that’s gonna frustrate you. Sex toys go extremely well with lube, if anything it can turn you on longer and keep you wet, just like how you may want.

Water based lubes are great for all kinds of sex toys. It’s super compatible and if you’re with a partner, they work great with condoms too. Also, if the lube gets on your sheets- they will wash away. So there’s nothing that could go wrong.

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Let's talk about

Sex Toys

How should I choose the my first sex toy for myself?

When it comes to choosing a sex toy online, it really depends on your personal preference, comfort and needs. But here are a few tips to consider before buying your toy!

1. Explore Your Needs: Start with exploring what kind of desires, interests and stimulation you enjoy. Is it the clit you wanna tease, the penis you wanna please? Next, explore the surroundings. Whether you want this for yourself or to indulge your long-distance partner? Do you live alone or you’d need something discreet for your desi family? And lastly, how frequently do you plan to use your toy.

2. Size and Shape: Now, consider your anatomy, lifestyle, kinks and preferences to figure out the size and shape of your first adult toy. Large toys are suitable for deeper stimulation while compact toys are easily manageable. You may want something resembling the texture and looks of human genitalia or go subtle with something chic and elegant for your bedside drawer. Look for small details like the curves on the dildo, ridges on the masturbator, or harness size of the strap-on. Remember, all these are important details. Don’t miss out on them.

3. Types of sensations: Once you have sorted the first two, half of the work is done! Next is to filter solely on the basis of the sensations you desire. Like, if you want something that vibrates either externally or internally, or something that does both. Maybe, you may need a variety of intensities like different speeds, or different patterns of vibrations, pulsations, or flicking motion!

Take into consideration which spot you’re looking to stimulate and how sensitive it is. For instance, if you’re looking for an anal toy, and you’ve never tried anal play, a prostrate massager is a big leap, start with anal beads.

4. Additional Features: This is a special case scenario only for those who desire something extra! What would this mean? Temperature control, orgasm mapping, dual motors feature, remote and app control, automated moans and literally every other feature you can imagine!

5. Budget: Lastly, you can plan a Mercedes but, if your budget sets for Hyundai, nobody can do much. Plan a budget you’d like to invest in a sex toy, and look for something that aligns around it. And if you’re looking for beginner friendly economical products, here are our recommendations:

a. Satisfyer Egg Masturbator

b. Tenga Original Vacuum Cup Extra Cool

c. Screaming O 4B Bullet Vibrator

d. Easy Toys Mini Ribbed Vibrator

e. Viben Cheeky Charms Gunmetal Heart Butt Plug

Are sex toys suitable for beginners? What would you recommend to try?

Absolutely! But of course, not all sex toys are for beginners. Everyone starts their journey with sex toys at different comfort levels. Start with discreet and easy-to-use options like bullet vibrators, cock rings, egg masturbators, or small-sized dildos.

Pair them with a water-based lube for a convenient experience with these toys, especially if you’re experimenting with penetration. These beginner toys are your subtle introduction to the world of pleasure without overwhelming you.

Exploring our expert-curated First-Time Shoppers collection can guide you in finding the perfect toy that aligns with your comfort and preferences. Take your time to discover what feels right for you and gradually move to more advanced options as you become more comfortable and confident.

Are sex toys safe to use?

We can't even stress how many times we have answered this question for ya'll! Let us scream from the rooftops. Sex toys are absolutely safe to be used inside and outside the body, if used responsibly with proper hygiene practices and according to the product use guidelines.

However, you need to be mindful of certain things before and after your purchase to make sex toys smoother and safer for you. Here's are three things to keep in mind:

1. Educate Yourself: Most toys are phthalates-free and 100% body-safe, but always ensure you or your partner are not allergic to any product material. Before purchasing, research if the lubes, massage oils or other pleasure accessories are consumable. Better safe than sorry!

2. Know Your Toy: Made the purchase? Unbox and read the manufacturer's instructions to know what your toy can and can't do. Then, get to the good things with minimum risks. For example, a wand massager is too intense internal stimulation, and a cock-ring cannot stimulate the balls. Be creative, but be safe :)

3. Learn the Basics: Now, when your toy is your bae, it obviously needs more attention! Keep your toy clean and dry. Wash before and after every use. Always tuck it away in a proper airtight pack at a cool, shady place away from sunlight. Don't leave it charging overnight. Never scrub or scratch your toy against a hard surface. And most importantly, don't ever share it with anybody.

Rest assured, we at IMbesharam import our products directly from reputable International and Indian brands to guarantee premium quality and experience at minimal costs to our customers. Whether it’s a high-priced product, or an inexpensive one, value for your money is guaranteed. So, worry less shop more ;)

What are your best 5 sex toys for men to try?

The most popular sex toys for men are Fleshlights, Masturbators, Cock Rings and Sex Dolls. Masturbators or Fleshlights are cup-shaped discreet sex toys made of realistic TPE material that mimics the sensations of a vulva or butt for penis owners. While some are designed for solo masturbation play, smart masturbators can be conveniently used over long-distance with a partner too.

Then, we have cock rings for lasting longer in bed. The ring grips the penis tightly, teasing it slowly with vibrations and pulsations. Sex dolls are pretty obviously life-like or semi-life like dolls that mimic having sex with a real person, and lastly, there are prostrate massagers for men interested in ass play.

Now, from the data we have from over 1,000,000 customers over a period of 10+ years, here is the list of Top 5 sex toys for men in India:

  1. Fleshlight Original Masturbator
  2. Cruizr Rotating Masturbator
  3. Satisfyer Men Masturbator
  4. Tenga Flex Masturbator
  5. Tenga Cup Masturbator

Go, find your rhythm :)

Why should I invest in a sex toy?

Babe, this list is never going to end because everyone has a different reason to invest in a sex toy, and all are valid. In short, sex toys are the secret sauce to a satisfying sex life, literally, from our ancestors. Not kidding, phallic-shaped batons date back to 30,000 years ago. While options were limited back then, the modern age is all about variety, diversity, and inclusivity of sex toys.

Now, let's start with why you should purchase one for yourself. Here are five reasons why!

a. Upscale your bedroom game: If you're a master blaster in the streets but finish it faster in the bedroom, sex toys are to the rescue. Not only cock-rings and enhancement pills help you last longer in the bedroom, but vibrators help your partner finish faster and enjoy longer. A win-win for all ;)

b. Spicing the solo sex: Doing it alone has its own perks but, don’t make it 1900s, especially when you can bring in a masturbator or a massager to help flame it up, not literally. Not just that, a toy is for you to explore your body, your likes dislikes in a safe space and prep up for your next partnered fun!

c. Enhancing sexual wellness: Whether it's to last longer in bed, address vaginismus, or attend to issues like erectile dysfunction, these toys are your healthy alternatives to navigate your sexual well-being concerns like a pro!

d. Haven for kink enthusiasts: Love being kinky? Sex toys are for you! The 100th good thing about sex toys is that they are non-judgemental. Whether you're into BDSM, femdom, cuckold, or pegging, there's a sex toy to practice every fantasy safely and in the comfort of your bedroom. You'll even find anal plugs with fur tails in the collection.

e. Getting creative in bed: The most underrated reason to invest in a sex toy for yourself is to get outside of the traditional sex, literally! Use wands and finger massagers to explore outside the conventional intimates and build up with lesser-popular intimate zones. Wear panty vibrators to a market, and let your partner have fun with the remote. Whatever you do, pleasure is limitless.

Lastly, an important reason to invest for you is you're here, and sex toys are, too. So, swipe the card and take a toy home ;)

Suggest me top 5 sex toys for women?

The most popular sex toys for women are, undoubtedly, vibrators. And there’s a diverse category of these out there. These lil’ buggers know how to make you feel ahh-mazing with one click. We have vibrators that vibrate, suck, flick and tease; are large, small, and mini, in the shape of bullets, eggs, rabbits, lipsticks, and even eye mascara; have clitoral stimulation; turn warm to match your body temperature; are waterproof and shower-friendly; use batteries, or are rechargeable for your inconvenience.

Some vibrators are hands-free with a thrusting motion for the vajayjay, while some have a suction motion for the clit, and a bunch of new vibrators are SMART AS HELL and can be operated by smart apps or Bluetooth controlled tiny and powerful remotes. It’s truly women’s era!

Now, From the data collected for last 8 years of over 400,000 online orders for sex toys for women, we can definitely list Top 5 sex toys for women in India in the below order:

  1. Fifty Shades G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
  2. Satisfyer Pro 2 Pressure Wave Vibrator
  3. BMS Rechargeable Power Bullet
  4. Fifty Shades Greedy Girl Thrusting Vibrator
  5. Satisfyer Penguin Clitoral Suction Vibrator

Go, find your vibe chica :)

5 Popular Sex Myths To Quit In 2024

Sex toys have gained immense popularity and interest around the globe. But let's face it, there's still a lot of stigma and taboo around sex toys, and 90% of it is flaky BS. We are here to debunk 5 common things about sex toys you may know that are nothing but myths to say bye-bye to!

Myth 1: Sex toys are only for singles.
Absolutely not! Sex toys are for everyone, even for couples with a vanilla sex life. These toys are not just appetizers to your main course, but can upgrade your entire meal from zero to hero. From cock rings to vibrators, handcuffs to bed restraints, smart masturbators to app-controlled vibrators- there's a buffet to explore!

Myth 2: Sex toys are addictive and can replace real intimacy.
Having biryani outside doesn't ruin your appetite for ghar ka paneer, does it? The same is the story with sex toys, as they are altogether different leagues. While sex toys are great for improving your orgasms and sex life, real intimacy is irreplaceable. A masturbator cannot cuddle you, or your vibrator can't give you a forehead kiss, na.

Myth 3: Sex toys are only for those with a "problem" in the bedroom.
The only problem sex toys help with is boring orgasms. Using sex toys has nothing to do with sexual problems. In facct, sex toys are known to help couples with erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation. They're for anyone looking to explore, experiment, and enjoy inside and outside of their bedroom. YKWIM!.

Myth 4: Sex toys are unhygienic and dirty.
This one entirely depends on the user. Keeping your sex toy clean is the easiest job in the world after washing your hands. You can either wipe them clean with a toy cleaner or mild soap and water. And air-dry them neatly to tuck your toys away in proper hygiene.

Myth 5: Sex toys are complicated and difficult to use.
How can something that operates with a single button be more difficult than the smartphone you use every day? Sex toys come in a variety of designs for user-friendly experiences. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced user, there's a toy for every comfort level. Simple, intuitive controls and clear instructions make using sex toys an easy and enjoyable experience. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise

Can I travel with my sex toys?

You can conveniently fly with your sex toys, for real! While sex toys are known to bring heaven to you, discreet sex toys are your partners in heaven. So, what are discreet toys? Basically, sex toys that are designed to look like simple, everyday objects in your bag.

We have discreet sex toys that appear like lipstick, mascara, lil' penguin, unicorn, eraser, or even makeup applier from the outside, but the moment you turn them on, they leave no stone unturned to turn YOU ON! You can use these toys for clit stimulation, g-spot teasing, and even pleasing the penis.

The best part is you remove their batteries, lock them in your baggage, and travel full Besharam with these toys. Nobody would know! You can obviously carry other toys with you as well (see reel of how to carry toys in flight), but we recommend traveling with non-suggestive toys only to avoid getting caught.

Can I use sex toys for masturbation?

For every newbie, the pleasure of masturbation is a secret waiting to be discovered in the human body. For some, it could be an embarrassing experience while others might get confused by the overpowering impulse of an orgasm. While there is nothing wrong with masturbation, it helps to keep a few things in mind, especially during the first few times, to keep things smooth and enjoyable.

1. Set the Mood Right: The first and foremost thing, when you want to use a sex toy like a masturbator or a vibrator is to find a space that’s private and free from interruptions. Otherwise, the fear of judgment if someone walks in on you, and getting caught in the act will not let you savor the ecstatic moments of pleasure. It is important not to hurry through the process, so make sure there’s sufficient time at hand.

2. Read, Watch and Visualise: A decent collection of erotic magazines or HD porn movies complement one’s imagination like nothing else. And, the anticipation is satiated with a good sex toy. Of course, there is an entire debate about the whole effect of porn on people. But, you can’t refuse the effect of good erotica, and ethical porn on your arousal!

3. Lube Your Way In: Sure, you can keep things “dry” and you will still have a good time. But even the mention of a lube causes huge waves of sexual energy. Lube makes things so much faster and easier, ensuring a smooth state of affairs. Bring in your sex toy and that additional dimension will make your experience realistic and satisfying. You’re all ready to start once you’ve applied the lube.

4. Keep it Gentle in the Beginning: Whether you are using your hand or a sex toy, keep the grip relaxed and easy, so that you can feel the skin, and yet don’t get used to a very hard sensation. Maintain the grip as your hand goes up and down. Keep things the usual, and slowly you can experiment with little things, like changing your speed, giving a bit of squeeze to the tip or even switching up hands. But don’t rush into anything. Keep it slow, or fast, as you like it.

5. All’s Well that Ends Well: Don’t be surprised if your supply of tissues runs out too quickly. Proper disposal of tissues is a must because after all, what’s good also needs to be hygienic. Alternatively, clean and air-dry your toy after every use, and store it away properly.

How should I take care of my sex toys after use?

Every time you use your sex toy, it comes in contact with body bacteria and moisture. It’s important to take care of your delicate toys after every use to avoid the risk of infections, and to maintain their longevity. Start with reading the cleaning instructions in the product manual to know any specific tips you have to be aware about.

For silicone toys, sanitize your toy with a non-toxic sex toy cleaner before and after use. You can also wash the toy with a bar of mild and fragrance-free soap, but ensure no residues are left. Alternatively, for metal, glass, and wood toys, you can also put them in boiling water on the stove or top rack of the dishwasher for about 7-10 minutes.

In the case of battery-operated sex toys, first remove the battery and then wipe it with a damp cloth or cleaning wipes. Avoid using water. Reinsert the batteries, and your toy is ready for use again! It is also advisable to store your sex toy in its original package or a cloth bag away from direct sunlight to keep it safe, functional, and of course, discreet from others. Use. Wash. Store. Repeat!

Sex Toys, explained