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Why Indian Couples Are Saying “Yes” to Dildos Together
Indian bedrooms are evolving faster than ever. What used to be whispered curiosity has become open exploration. A recent study found that among Indian adults aged 18 - 45, over 98% were aware of sex toys, and nearly 40% had tried them, either alone or with a partner. That’s not just a number; it’s a cultural shift in how couples view intimacy with adult toys.
Couples today aren’t looking at sex toys as “taboo”, they now looking beyond routine foreplay and rediscovering connection through toys like dildos and strap-ons. As AlloHealth notes, adding intimacy toys like dildos or strap-ons helps partners rediscover new sensations, break routine, and bring novelty back into long-term relationships.
Whether it’s experimenting on a lazy weekend or finding a new rhythm after years together, couple sex toys are helping spark honest conversations about pleasure.
Expanding on the role of sex toys in relationships, 26-year-old Lakshya shared, “They’re a great way to explore new fantasies together, it always adds to the excitement and deepens the pleasure we share.”
Similarly, 24-year-old Samik reflected on her own experience with adult toys and how they’ve transformed intimacy in her relationship: “When you explore pleasure on your own, it’s like reaching level X. But when you bring that openness into a partnership, the connection and satisfaction can easily double or even triple, it becomes 2X or 3X.”
With privacy-focused online shopping and discreet delivery from stores like IMbesharam, Indian couples are finally saying “yes” to pleasure and discovering that shared exploration builds deeper emotional and physical bonds.
5 Reasons Dildos Make a Great Couples’ Toy
- Massive Variety to Fit Both: Dildos come in countless shapes, sizes and styles (realistic dildos, double-ended dildos, glass dildos, vibrating dildos, strap-on dildos) giving couples plenty of choices to find what excites both partners.
- Ultimate Versatility: These toys can be used for multiple types of play like vaginal, anal, shared penetration, and foreplay, making them adaptable for any couple’s dynamic.
- Size & Sensation Control: Unlike one sole body part, a dildo lets the couple choose girth, length, texture and firmness so you can tailor the experience to comfort and adventure.
- Reliable Performance: A good dildo offers consistent stimulation without pressure helping partners relax into the moment rather than worry about performance.
- Boosts Intimacy & Communication: Using a dildo together opens up talk about preferences, fantasies and comfort zones, which strengthens both emotional and physical connection.
How to Bring a Dildo Into Your Bedroom Together (Without the Awkwardness)
The hardest part isn’t buying a sex toy, it’s starting the conversation. The idea of using a dildo can excite one partner and worry the other. On Reddit, one user confessed:
“We discussed being willing to use toys … but I dunno how to discuss the topic without seeming TOO excited.”
That’s a relatable fear. For many couples, talking about dildo can feel embarrassing or risky. The key? Start the conversation casually maybe while watching a romantic scene, or when scrolling online together. You could say, “I saw this couple talking about using a dildo together, what do you think?”
Suggest exploring online stores together, reading reviews, or checking designs that appeal to both. The goal isn’t to “convince” your partner it’s to discover something new together.
And remember: introducing a dildo or strap-on or any sex toys isn’t about “fixing” anything. It’s about adding variety, not replacing intimacy. Consent, comfort, and pacing are everything. Let it be an experiment, not a performance.
Choosing the Right Dildos and Strap-Ons for Both Partners
Forget confusing specs, what matters most is how a toy makes both of you feel. Choose a dildo that fits your shared mood, comfort, and fantasy.
Look for designs with dual-use potential (both partners can enjoy), shared control (like Smart app-controlled dildo), or neutral designs that don’t feel “gendered.” There are literally tons of versions of dildos exist like Thrustings dildos, Glass dildos, vibrating dildos, Double ended dildos, strap-ons dildos, realistic, and so on.
How to Use a Dildo Together: Positions, Roles & Fantasies
Many couples share how dildos have brought them closer. If it’s your first time, take it slow. Try using the dildo as part of foreplay, not the main act. Let partner take control. Explore fantasies where dildo become part of storytelling or role-play.
Remember: it’s about connection, laughter, and discovery, not pressure or performance.
Using a dildo together isn’t about replacing your partner, it’s about sharing pleasure, exploring fantasies, and understanding each other’s bodies better. Think of it as adding a new flavor to something you already enjoy.
Here are some couple-friendly ways to bring a dildo into your intimacy:
1. Start With “Let Me Show You What I Like”
One partner lies back while the other uses the dildo slowly, asking:
- “Like this?”
- “Deeper or softer?”
2. Use It Together, Hand-in-Hand
Sit facing each other. One partner holds the dildo, and the other places their hand over theirs.
You move together, share rhythm, look into each other’s eyes. This makes the experience feel connected, not one-sided.
3. Try the “I Love Watching You Enjoy” Moment
One partner uses the dildo on themselves while the other watches, touches, kisses, or whispers encouragement.
4. Pair It With External Stimulation
A dildo feels even better when combined with another sensation:
- A small bullet vibrator
- Fingers on the clitoris / nipples / hips
- Gentle pressure or kisses
Foreplay with dildos encourages body awareness and helps partners learn what feels good, what doesn’t, and how to sync with each other’s desires.
Best Dildos and Strap-Ons to Try in Your Bedroom
Here are a few popular picks from IMbesharam that couples love:
1. Neon SuperSmooth Vibrating Dildo: A simple, smooth, and beginner-friendly vibrator that’s perfect for couples trying toys together for the first time. Soft, easy to control, and great for slow exploration or playful teasing.
2. Love To Love Nightfall Dildo: Elegant, sleek, and designed for sensual, slow-build pleasure. Its shape makes it easy to guide and perfect for partners who love taking their time and exploring rhythm together.
3. Glas 6.5" Spiral Dildo: Made from body-safe glass, this one adds temperature play and a unique spiral texture. Warm it up or cool it down for new sensations. Couples love it because it feels intimate and artistic, not intimidating.
4. King Cock 10" Stiffy Realistic Dildo + Vibration: Bold, thick, and realistic in feel — great for couples who enjoy fuller sensations. The added vibration brings extra intensity, making it ideal for more adventurous play.
5. Sex & Mischief Strap-On & Silicone Dildo: Lightweight and comfortable, perfect for experimenting with power play or switching roles. Easy to handle and helps partners explore trust, communication, and new dynamics.
Bonus: Strap-on-Me Strapless Bendable Strap-On Dildo: Designed for skin-to-skin closeness, without straps getting in the way. It moves with the body naturally and makes penetration feel connected, intimate, and shared.
Each one comes with body-safe materials, easy-to-clean surfaces, and discreet packaging — made for exploration without anxiety.
This is about exploring pleasure together, building connection, and celebrating openness. Every shared laugh, surprise, or discovery adds a new layer to your love story.
Because love in 2025 isn’t about sticking to old rules — it’s about writing your own.
