15 Bedroom Bucket List Ideas to Try Before You Turn 40

Or 30, Or 50. Honestly, Whenever You’re Ready.

We’ve all heard about those big, dramatic bucket lists, the skydiving, learning Italian, hiking Kilimanjaro kind or trying achieve Poo's personality. And sure, that’s cute. 

But what about your bedroom bucket list? The one with dim lights, late-night playlists, and maybe a cheeky sex toy from under the bed? That list matters too.

Because your sex life doesn’t come with a 'best before' date. Whether you’re 25 or 55, with a long-term partner or vibin' solo with your vibrator India-style, pleasure is timeless. This isn't about being wild just for the plot. It's about play, exploration, and curiosity. And maybe laughing when a butt plug rolls under the bed mid-session.

So here it is: your permission slip to get bold, get curious, and get yours. Kyunki, you should be your favourite! And we’ve got some hot bedroom bucket list ideas to spice up your list!

1. Use a Mirror Not just for angles (though, yes, serve angles):
   There are always fun things to try in bed but what about the rest of the things in the bedroom or house? IYKYK. Seeing yourself in the act can flip the narrative on body image and self-perception. Sex toys optional. Confidence? Mandatory.
   
   
2. Try Temperature Play:
   A glass of cold water, a warm palm, or a melted massage candle. Activate those nerve endings. Bonus points if you toss in some sex toys to try with a partner to spice things up. Katy Perry once said, you're HOT and you're cold...say yes, baby.

3. Masturbate With an Audience With consent, of course:
   Watching or being watched is peak vulnerability and peak turn-on. If you’re feeling extra, throw in a remote control vibrator. For notes, check out that one film from Lust Stories 2 (IYKYK) Putting on a show for your partner or anyone else is a one way ticket on how to spice up your sex life.

4. Roleplay Something Absurd:
   Forget the overdone nurse-patient trope. Try roommates fighting. Or the barista who definitely misspelled your name on purpose. Maybe even...Ranbir removing Alia's red lipstick ;) This is a really hot intimacy idea for couples who really want to get into role playing. It’s natural, real and oh so steamy.

5. Make Out Like Teenagers:
   Fully clothed. Lights low. No goal beyond kissing till your jaw hurts. Just vibes. Zero pressure. 100% tension. Put the flowers to shame! 

6. Have Sex Somewhere Unexpected (But Legal):
   Your floor. The balcony. The car. Your car parked outside…for some low key public play action. The kitchen counter. Hell, even switching sides of the bed counts. Adult toys make it easier to explore new sensations in familiar places.

7. Give Up Control:
   Just for a night. Let them lead. Skip your usual script. No playlist, no schedule. Just trust. (This is where a BDSM kit can really shine.)

8. Use a Toy Together:
   Toys aren’t a backup plan. They’re your co-stars. Our top pick? SugarBoo Coral Kiss Clitoral Massager. This baby is a bestseller in women sex toys and it delivers... every. damn. time.

9. Read Smut Out Loud:
   From Wattpad to r/WildStories, pick a passage and read it. It’ll feel awkward until it suddenly doesn’t. Just don’t break into giggles when someone says "heaving bosom." To make things better, read smut from your favourite fandoms. Arsenal vs ManU player? YES.

10. Try a Blindfold:
    Remove one sense to heighten the rest. Sight gone = touch, breath, sound amplified. Suddenly a whisper feels like a jolt. Try it with panty vibrators or anal toys to mix it up.

11. Send the Text:
    The spicy one. The flirty one. The "thinking about last night" one (none of these are episodes of FRIENDS). Whether you’re together or texting from across the room, sexual toys keep the energy going IRL and URL. This can get a solo session started and this self pleasure tip will take you to orgasm town real quick.

12. Create a Sex Playlist That Isn’t Cringe Takes effort, but it’s worth it:
    Avoid songs from Netflix montages. Focus on rhythm, not lyrics. And yes, Lovense counts if you wanna sync your toys to the beat.

13. Talk About a Fantasy You Haven’t Tried, you don’t have to act on it:
    Just voicing it can be a game changer. Who knows, it might lead to shopping for a strap on or exploring lesbian sex toys for the first time or maybe even trying a little BDSM.

14. Have Morning Sex Without Checking Your Phone First:
    No doomscrolling. No Whatsapp. Just you, them, messy sheets and a clitoral massager. Start your day with a bang (literally). And thank us for that morning cardio and reduced screen time.

15. Celebrate Your Pleasure Like a Milestone:
    You’d post about a promotion. So why not celebrate an epic orgasm? Light a candle. Order biryani. Treat your dildo for women like a trophy. You earned it.

You don’t need to check these off in a weekend. Or even a year. Pleasure doesn’t run on a timer. Whether you're single, cuffed, or figuring it out, sex toys can be your sidekick, not a sign of something missing. 

Your bedroom is your playground. Your body is your co-pilot. So go forth, be curious, and remember that you deserve a sex life that evolves, expands, and excites, at every age.