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A dildo is one of the simplest sex toys there is, and one of the most personal. They come in every shape, size, material and mood, from lifelike to playfully abstract, so the right dildo is simply the one that suits your body and what you're after. This collection brings together realistic, glass, vibrating, double, squirting and strap-on styles from trusted brands like Glas, King Cock, Strap-on-Me, Love to Love, Dorcel and Lovense. Every order ships in plain, discreet packaging, with COD and EMI options across India.
What is a dildo?
If the word "dildo" has got you curious and you're wondering what exactly it is? Then this mysterious little word might just take your pleasure to the next level.
A dildo is a firm or semi-firm toy built for penetration. But how it's built is where things get interesting. A tapered tip might be exactly your speed. Or a curved one might hit the front wall of the vagina or press against the prostate. So no, dildos aren't just for women! They're for everyone: women, men, couples, anyone looking to spice things up.
Unlike a vibrator, a dildo doesn't need a motor to get the job done. They can be moulded to look exactly like a penis, or go fully smooth and abstract. Nothing to charge and nothing to switch on, unless you pick one of the vibrating or app controlled models below. Worn in a harness, the same toy becomes a strap-on.
Types of dildos and what each one is best for
Realistic penis shaped dildos look like the real thing. Every vein, ridge, and detail intact, because sometimes you want it to feel exactly like you're used to (or exactly like your fantasy). Dual density silicone gives you that firm-but-soft combo, like the King Cock 6 inch realistic dildo or the Dorcel Real Pleasure realistic penis dildo. If lifelike is the whole point, this is your aisle.
Glass dildos are smooth, firm, and deliciously heavy in the hand. And since glass plays nice with any lube, you can skip the stress of figuring out what to pair it with. Slide it under warm or cold water first and watch the temperature play change the whole game. Try the Glas Callisto Clear or the curved Glas 6 inch curved G-spot dildo, built to find the spot and stay there. In case you prefer metal, our steel dildos bring the same unforgiving firmness with a cool, heavy edge.
Vibrating and smart dildos add a buzz to the fill. Adjustable modes take you from a gentle hum to something far more intense, like the Neon SuperSmooth Vibrating. App controlled models such as the Lovense GRAVITY app controlled thrusting dildo thrust as well as vibrate, and let a partner take the controls from the next room or the next city. If you're new to these, our guide on how to use a vibrating dildo walks through the modes and the safe way to build up.
Double dildos are double ended for shared play or deeper solo sensation, and a long time favourite for partners who want to enjoy one toy together, like the King Cock 12 inch slim double dildo or the glass Glas Double Bull.
Strap-on dildos are made to be worn in a harness, for pegging and couple play. Look for a flat or flared base, and check the base width against your harness ring before you buy. Popular picks include the Strap-on-Me Dual Density and the Strap-On-Me P&G Spot.
Suction cup dildos have a strong base that grips smooth surfaces, a wall, the floor or the shower tile, for hands free play. Realistic ranges like the King Cock 8 inch realistic suction cup dildo pair that suction base with a lifelike shape, and many double up as harness compatible, so they cross over into strap-on use too.
Squirting dildos hold water or a body safe lube in a reservoir and release it on command, which some couples enjoy as part of a fantasy or a conception roleplay. They need a little more cleaning care than a solid toy, since the internal channel has to be flushed after every use.
Curved and G-spot dildos bend upward to press against a specific spot rather than filling evenly along the shaft. The same curve that finds the G-spot also reaches the prostate, which is why many men use them too. If prostate play is your main interest, our prostate massagers are shaped more precisely for it.
Dildos for women and dildos for men
The categories overlap more than people expect, and there's no rule about who uses what. The same toy can work for a woman solo, for a man exploring anal play, or for a couple sharing it. What actually changes is the shape and the base you should be looking at.
- Dildos for women. Beginners usually get on best with slimmer, softer silicone, somewhere around 4 to 5 inches insertable. A curved shaft feels more targeted for some bodies and does nothing for others, so it's worth trying a straight one first if you're unsure. Once you know what you like, girth is usually the thing to adjust before length. Double ended dildos and strap-ons are popular for partner play between women, and a suction cup base opens up hands free positions. Whichever you pick, water based lube makes the difference between good and uncomfortable.
- Dildos for men. For anal play, smoother and slimmer shapes with a clearly flared base are the sensible starting point, and that flared base isn't optional. Curved toys that reach the prostate are the reason many men buy their first dildo, and they're usually happier starting narrow and working up than starting big. Silicone and glass are the easiest materials to keep clean, and anal play needs more lube than you'd think, reapplied as you go. Men also use realistic and suction cup styles for solo play, or wear a strap-on for their partner.
Materials and body safety
Material decides how a toy feels, how firm it is, which lube to use, and how easily it stays clean.
|
Material |
Feel |
Lube |
Care |
|
Silicone |
Soft, flexible, body safe, non-porous |
Water based only, silicone lube can damage it |
Easy to clean, the all round favourite |
|
Glass and steel |
Firm, smooth, non-porous, great for pressure and temperature play |
Any lube |
Very easy to sanitise, keep glass away from knocks |
|
TPR, TPE, jelly and rubber |
Softer and budget friendly, but porous |
Water based, use a condom over the toy |
Harder to fully sanitise, replace more often |
If hygiene is your priority, non-porous materials, silicone and glass, are the simplest to keep clean, which is why many shoppers stick with them. Some people also find they react to certain softer blends, so if you've got sensitive skin, silicone or glass is the safer starting point.
How to choose the right dildo size
There's no best size, only the one that feels right for you. Check the insertable length, which is what actually goes in, and the girth, which is the thickness. Total length on the box isn't the number that matters.
- New to dildos. Slimmer and softer, around 4 to 5 inches insertable, is a comfortable start, like the soft silicone Neon SuperSmooth. Go slow and use plenty of lube.
- Comfortable and curious. A little more girth or length, or a curved shaft for targeted G-spot or prostate play.
- Experienced. Fuller girth and length, or a textured shaft for more sensation.
- Thinking about a giant size. Ask our team to walk you through the real measurements first. Large dildos are almost always bigger in person than they look on a screen, and they're harder to store discreetly.
With a vibrating dildo, comfort comes first. Choose a size you'd still enjoy on the lowest setting.
Bases, and why they matter
- Flared base means anal safe. For any anal play, only use a toy with a clearly flared base. It's the one rule that keeps things safe.
- Suction cup for hands free play on smooth surfaces, in the shower, or mounted for a different angle.
- Flat or flared base for harness and strap-on use. Match the base width to your harness ring.
How to use a dildo
Wash the toy before the first use, then give yourself a relaxed, unhurried setting. Arousal matters more than technique here. A dildo doesn't warm you up on its own, so take your time first.
Apply lube generously to both yourself and the toy, then start slow. Tease the entrance, angle gently, and let your body set the pace rather than pushing to a target depth. If anything feels sharp or uncomfortable, stop and add more lube or drop down a size. For anal play, go slower still and never skip the flared base rule.
Shopping as a couple? Our blog covers why more Indian couples are trying dildos together, including how to start the conversation. You can also browse our wider range of sex toys for women and our anal toys collection.
Cleaning, care and choosing lube
A little care keeps your toy safe and lasting longer.
- Wash before and after every single use with warm water and a toy cleaner or mild soap. Check whether yours is waterproof before rinsing anything with a motor.
- Reach for water based lube. It's safe with every material and with condoms. Skip silicone lube on silicone toys.
- Store toys separately in a pouch or case. Don't let them touch each other in a drawer, and keep glass somewhere it won't get knocked.
- Never move a toy from anal to vaginal use without washing it thoroughly first.
- Toys are personal. If you're sharing, use a condom and clean properly between users.
Why buy dildos at IMbesharam
Buying something this personal should feel easy and private.
- Plain, discreet packaging, with nothing on the outside to give it away.
- Genuine products from brands like Glas, King Cock, Strap-on-Me, Love to Love, Dorcel and Lovense.
- Clear specifications on every product page so you can compare size, material, base style and features before you decide.
- COD, EMI and fast shipping across India, with a support team you can actually ask for help.
