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Sometimes I wish male sex toys were sold as easily as condoms. Imagine, you go out to buy yourself some milk and boom! There’s a BOGO sale on masturbators. How amazing would that be? When it comes to male sex toys, the approach should be as easy as getting the boys together for a poker night. If you’re still considering bringing in a male sex toy into the bedroom with the usual “Is this the right time?” Or “Should I do this?” The answer is yes, my friend. You should. Cause believe it or not, sex toys for men are toys that will make you feel good. You are a big boy, and big boys deserve big toys. IFYKYK.
Why Male Sex Toys?
Whether you participate in straight or queer sex, male sex toys can always be exciting even if it’s slightly awkward in the beginning.
Male sex toys exist and they come in several shapes and sizes. From cock rings, masturbators, anal plugs and more. There’s always something for you to touch, rub, stroke and poke. If you are particular about the glass you pour your whiskey into then you’re in luck, these adult playthings come in sleek design too.
Now, these toys have gotten a bad reputation (we blame TV shows and films). Often we assume men who own sex toys are lonely but that’s not always the case, sometimes they are simply, smart. Having a sex toy to play with enhances pleasure in multiple ways during solo and partnered play. It’s truly empowering for a man to have an adult toy that can make bedroom exploration far more exciting, even with a partner. So, how does one introduce their male toy to their partner?
Tip #1
Focus and work on getting rid of any shame or judgment you might be internalizing or feeling. Your male masturbator is your pleasure buddy. You’ve been playing with yourself since you were 12, it’s time to elevate the experience and feel extra stimulated. Ditch the usual routine and take your friend down under for a whole new experience. They are what will keep you up at night cause they simply feel that good. With time, your roman empires will be how amazing masturbating feels with your male masturbator or butt plug.
Solo Time + Toy + Some Good Porn = A very good time.
That’s some boy math for you.
Tip #2
Now that judgment and shame are out. Bring the toy into the bedroom with a partner too. Why have all the fun alone? Bring in the conversation. Sex Toys in Bangalore are a great way to spice up your sex life but do not pull out a cock ring in mid-reverse cowgirl. That will cause a lot of confusion for an unsuspecting soul. Instead, hold conversations before bringing your male toy into the bedroom. You can talk about your solo experiences with your toy, and describe why you want to bring those in your bedroom. That way, your partner can stroke you out the way you want to. Pleasure is a two way street and I don’t know you, but mutual pleasure is so much more hot. Start slow and get the conversation going. It’s always a lot more fun to play with your toys amongst friends, the childhood rules still apply.
Hot Tip: Introduce a sex toy that works for your partner too like, vibrating cock ring or remote controlled prostate massager. That way you and your partner can experience something nice with it - you know, get to know each other.
Tip #3
Bringing your toys in the bedroom can sometimes result in an insecure partner, too. It’s super important for you to clear the air with your partner and talk about what their insecurities are. Remember to assure your partner they are a priority and the main part of any partnered play y’all would participate in. Male sex toys aren’t a threat, it's an experience, just like a vibrator or a dildo for women. Speaking of experience, make it an experience for two. Introducing other toys in the bedroom, couples sex toys are great in situations like this. A little something for you and a little something else for them. Establish conversation, consent and reassurance with your partner. A little talk goes a long way!
Tip #4
Now that you and your partner are on the same page, go online shopping! Even if you have a toy prior to the conversation with your partner, go shopping for a new one together. That way you and your partner can discuss likes, dislikes, and boundaries while also being a part of the activity together. This will create a larger connection and maybe even unpack a lot of conversation between the two of you. The best part about shopping for toys together is learning more about each other. Maybe you never thought about a cock ring but now that your partner is ready to play with you in the ring, they might be even more curious. A fleshlight may seem intimidating at first but discussing how you would use it in a partnered play situation might expand the mind into wanting it a lot more. Something like using a fleshlight while eating them out! *Wink wink nudge nudge*
Tip #5
Hrithik once lip sang “Bang, bang!” Just like that, it’s time for you and your partner to bang it out. But before doing so, still ask for consent. It’ll help your partner feel assured to say no if they suddenly decide to change their mind or want to wait longer before experimenting with a male sex toy. Once consent is given, participate in partnered play that turns both of you on. Equal participation is important so no one feels left out. Costumes and role-play always make the bedroom fun a lot more exciting and fun. It takes away from reality and helps you think as characters you’re yet to play out as, during the entire process focus on each other's moves and communicate.
Hot Tip: In sexy thrusts we trust. ;)
Partnered or not, male sex toys belong in the bedroom. You might already have a boring 9-5 routine, it’s time to say yes an out of box experience or shall we say inside a sleeve experience instead? If you're in Delhi, you'll find that the market for Sex Toys in Delhi is expanding, offering more options and easier access than ever before.
